It’s simple really; rub it, nibble it. Make her moan and get her wet before you venture into coitus. If she doesn’t want to fuck, that means you fail at for play. Yes. Yes. Yes. It is that powerful. I fucked a woman who had said she would never fuck me two hours before I started licking her neck. Take the time, Gentleman never rush a woman. Make them pine for a good twenty min. Gentlemen are lords of the bed room to be revered and begged to, not “I just got off work lets fuck” (although we do that when she is in the mood. Gents long story short don’t fuck her until you have caressed or nibbled every inch of her body except her feet. I am not a foot guy.